There
is so much written about women already but it’s never enough. Women are pure
creatures of God. They are born in a different shape, with a different mindset
as compared to that of a man. Not saying that men are less but women are much
more than them.
Women
can bleed without being injured, women can give birth to women themselves and
men. They bleed for whole one week continuously putting a wide smile on their
face, having their bus schedule, managing their work life and family life
equally, etc.
Whenever
we talk about home, it’s always a house without a woman. This is said by our
elders that a house becomes home only when women cherish it with her love,
care, guidance, positive nature, and most importantly her presence.
Life Stages of a Women
1. Daughter Stage
Women’s
life started as a daughter first when she is born.
As
a daughter, she makes sure she is always there for her father, mother, brother,
sister, and all other relatives as being the biggest support in their lives.
She always tries to be responsible for the family, to take care of every
person, to know what everyone wants and wants all wants she’ll be able to
fulfill and she always tries to fulfill as much as she can.
A daughter is the pride of her family due to which she has to also suffer a lot in her lifestyle. It's not just daughters but every woman faces some or the other problems just because of being a girl.
Such as not being allowed to go
out after sunset, not allowed to go out before sunrise alone, can’t traveling
long distances alone due to the insecurities made up because of rapists, chain
snatchers, bullies, etc. but she always tries to suppress these things in front
of her career standards and built her career in the way she wants and to get
success in her life.
2. Wife Stage
The
second stage of her life is being a wife. When a girl becomes a wife, her
responsibilities just become twice the earlier. Now it isn’t just emotionally
and physically available for her family but also her husband’s whole family.
Now she’s said that she isn’t only responsible for her family’s reputation but also her husband’s or better half family's reputation. Now she takes care of her family by being kilometers away from them and at the same time she also has to take care of her husband’s family, the ones who are new to her and has to learn every detail about them in a very short time.
Besides his whole family, the main person in her life turns out to be her
husband. From whom she expects to get supported the most, emotionally,
physically, in her career, etc. He becomes her backbone all the time and
expects him to support her and love her in every way for her some of the
time.
3. Mother Stage
After
being a wife the most emotional and important stage comes in her life and that
stage is called being a mom.
Being a mother is a really special feeling in a woman’s life. They suffer their period pains for their whole life then the wife stage of her life takes responsibility for both families equally to build harmony, peace, and a warm environment between the members of her family or say in a home. Then they suffer the pain of 9 months by keeping the baby in the womb by suffering all the side effects due to their pregnancy.
The mood swings, constipation, vomits, and many more things. After suffering through a lot, after 9 months when she finally gives birth to a baby, it’s the result of all the bearing pain and wait of the whole time. Then the women make that baby her way of happiness and her support for her future.
She becomes responsible for all the habits that the child
possesses in his\her future, no matter what the child is learning from his\her
father or anyone else. But at the end of the day, it becomes her responsibility
for the morals of her child.
This
is a really small part of a woman’s life. There is much more than this and goes
to a great extent. Must respect every woman in your life and understand them
and take care of them and love them in the most appropriate way you can.
Written
by Aditi Singh
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